“When a woman is interested in a man, she makes time for him,” says Brooke Carsner, owner of Intuitive Matchmaking.“When there is always some other person, some event, some commitment that is taking up more of her time, that is a clear indication that you are not as high on her priority list.” It’s bad enough to hear about one ex-file, but an entire encyclopedia worth of info? “This means that she has not grieved him, and you are in danger of being the rebound boyfriend,” says Todd Creager, a licensed marriage and family therapist.But for lengths of time in between, your goal is to separate the girl who should stay from the rest who should go.To help you weed out the bad seeds, our experts break down the actions that signify she’s simply not worth your time. ), and your lady wants to talk about the Kardashians. When you’re excited about work or life goals, but she’s switching the subject to involve her interests, she doesn’t care about you.
In a society where there are ideals of femininity and masculinity, it can be difficult for individuals who don't fit neatly into those boxes.
Yesterday morning I was introduced to the term “cushioning” and nearly had a meltdown.
The act of cushioning — when people in monogamous relationships stay in casual contact with people they may want to date in the future — wasn’t at all new or upsetting to me.
Wouldn’t you rather hit the gym or hang with the guys than put up with this BS? “This is a sure sign she is selfish,” says Jonathan Alpert, psychotherapist and author of Opposites attract, but not when it comes to values and world views.
As a die-hard Yankees fan, overcoming her love for the Red Sox might be sports suicide.