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If you introduce a new person too early, you run the risk of your kids having to meet multiple dates -- which could feel weird for your kids. Although some of you may not feel that you've chosen your situation, you must admit that you chose and created it more than your children did.If you introduce too late and you are thoroughly smitten to the point of being invested, and the vibe is bad with the kids (in either direction), it will be tempting to minimize the potential problems brewing. Most of the time, kids don't choose to have a stepparent.You remember the living hell that your divorce was.And if you really work at it, you can even vaguely remember how you were once head-over-heals in love with your ex.Try saying something like "I'm going to go see a movie with a friend on Friday night.

I have not spoken to my first ex wife for years, and once Apple released the option to block a contact she was vanquished from her random “Hey how are you? I was no Al Bundy, and she was less Peg than I occasionally claim, but we didn’t make it as married parents. In my current relationship, with a woman who’s had no children but was married for 17 years, we have a very different experience of life.Looking for a new mate as a divorced person with children is tricky -- especially if your children are important to you, which hopefully they are. Because it takes time and experience before you can know if someone is mate-worthy.At the same time, it's not recommended to introduce your new friend to your kids until you think the relationship is serious enough to warrant that.Finding yourself alone and not being used to it, or longing for the intimacy that was lacking in your marriage, can tempt you into settling into a new relationship prematurely.When you have children, it's very important to take your time and thoughtfully choose your next partner.But because you are a responsible grown-up, you know that would be a really stupid thing to do.

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