In the last 2 years I've used Adult Friend Finder twice and was sucessful both times. on that webite, but THERE ARE A LOT OF REAL GIRLS on the site that are just trying to have sex too. Both times I met girls all I did was pop in my regional area chat room, jump in the conversation, found the youngest, closest girl (in my cases the first one was 19yo 10 miles away, the second was 23yo 3 miles away, I'm 28) exchanged Yahoo IM names (obviously private IM on AFF is a pay service), talk, meet up. The only way you can tell a girl is real is if she doesn't give it up on the first date. And for 2 girl's I met on a sex site and met in person for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike, they actually did seem like the types of girls who'd "meet a random ass guy on a sex site and meet for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike." 75% of the profiles are fake.
A woman these days is NOT going to give it away when she can sell it on back page or craiglsist. They even give rates and phone numbers' But i figure that there is going to be some major stings going on soon and since this is protitution, then backpage and craiglsist can be held in helping this illegal activity. I would recommend using plenty of fish but you have to be above average in looks to get anywhere.Asking for real, free, sites on Google only gives us the big "pay us" sites....On the great big, open, free information internet, there must be places adults get together to chat, maybe meet, maybe more.... FWIW my experience is that it depends on what effort you put in - I've tried a number of sites with various degrees of 'success' which depends of course on what you want!Sometimes they are seeking only friendship, but more often than not, they are indulging in extra-marital affairs and infidelity.In some cases, they may be in open, or polyamorous relationships where dating outside the relationship isn’t considered outside the boundaries. Just like the signs in a parking lot that say they are not responsible for damage to your car. In TEXAS, if you give your keys to a a valet, a parking lot attendant, etc, a relationship called the bailor-bailee relionship is created (I was tought this by a lawyer in college in a business law course). The last girl I met up with actually goes to 'parties' by people on the site (ie not sponsered by AFF). Think a decnt looking woman is going to jump inot bed with you unless you can do something for her? this dude is just as much of a scam as Adult Friend Finder. Crap Crap Crap Adult dating sites are no more than porn sites that try to hook you to paying for live feeds. If you are looking at trying to hookup there is no use paying for it.